Let him talk about himself, reveal secrets to you, bare his soul. And you in return keep a slight mystical distance, being once kind, again a little less. This will leave you feeling confused, insecure, and surprised. It will make you take the first step. Just what you've been chasing.
What happens to a man when he is badly reciprocated? He feels confused, they make him jealous, he begins to tell his friends about his bad experience, he begins to dramatize a victim role ... when, he lives peacefully! Have you felt that? And all for what? Well, we don't have emotional maturity.
Second act is the time of punishment. In this phase, few submissives choose rebellion and insubordination. In their brain they have already accepted that insubordination is only the prologue to another greater punishment.
Prescribe the correct medication (this also, but you can keep the doctor well informed of the effects of the medication to know if the objectives that are intended with each drug are being achieved).
Have her lie on her side with her lower leg bent and her upper leg open toward the ceiling. You lie perpendicular to her and snuggle into her crotch, resting your head on her thigh. Help her support her leg with her hand or let her cover it with her head or torso.